Guess what, solo polyamory doesn’t mean I’ll give it up when the right person comes along.
Although it might look like dating in some respects solo polyamory as a lifestyle choice is different. Not finding a primary partner to set up house with, and live alongside is a valid choice and shouldn’t be confused by those new to polyamory with dating until “the one” comes along. Solo polyamorists believe in multiple meaningful relationships, and don’t look for someone to merge finances with.